I’m coming to the conclusion that out of mind, out of sight is one of my key tactics when it comes to forgiveness. Not allowing the other person opportunity to strike again, by removing myself from situations.

Brene Brown has a couple of quotes that I use as daily reminders to be more thoughtful about how I take in my day. I’m not so good at saying no, so her conversations around choosing a few moments of discomfort over hours of resentment are ones I am trying to focus on.

In the interests of looking after my own wellbeing, I’ll say it here. Zeb, I do not condone your lies or actions. You hurt me, deeply. I have previously blocked you from all my social etc, and somehow you’re back. I don’t want you back. I’m going thru the process of blocking you again, but I’d also like it if you could take those steps back also.
Thank you.